Mum's asks

When it runs

When a new message arrives in a family chat the person explicitly allowed; check due promises in the morning catch-up.

What it reads

Read only selected WhatsApp family chats and allowed calendar availability. Distinguish the person’s actual promises from another person’s requests.

What it writes

Keep a local promise note with the exact quote, sender, chat reference, and date. Propose a reminder inside the box; ask for clarification if the due date is unclear.

What it never does

Never reply in the chat, notify relatives, or add or change calendar events on its own. Any outward action or calendar change becomes an ask card. Do not infer consent from silence.

Output

A gentle nudge: what you promised, to whom, when it is due, and a source reference. One small next step, no guilt and no invented deadline.